Farewell Judi
I’m so sad to tell you that yesterday we at BFB lost one of our long-time members and good friends.
jgaines123 (Judi) died in hospital. We do not have too many details but we know that she went in for a routine operation, something went wrong while she was there, and she sadly didn’t make it.
Judi was so kind and sweet to everyone. She and I never met, but I know lots of you knew her. She was a wonderful landscape artist, a generous soul, and a huge fan of Bo’s, who saw him perform live whenever she could and kindly shared her videos with all of us. Judi always went out of her way to help other fans, often making DVDs of videos they couldn’t watch, and recording TV performances to share with those who couldn’t see the shows. In all the time I knew her, I never knew her to have a bad word for anyone.
I know you’ll all join me in sending our most heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. And of course, as her friends, we will all miss her terribly.
RIP Judi.
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September 20th, 2009 at 11:21 am
RIP jgaines. You are truly going to be missed.
September 20th, 2009 at 11:40 am
On Angels’ wings Judi . . . I’m praying for your peace in heaven.
September 20th, 2009 at 11:41 am
I am so, so very sorry to hear this. We love you Judi. RIP
This is just not right.
September 20th, 2009 at 11:53 am
I am shocked. I was hoping she can pull it through.
Judi has been very generous of her time and her talent. She will surely be missed. RIP Judi.
September 20th, 2009 at 12:26 pm
I am very sorry to hear this. Condolence to her family and friends on their loss.
Generosity like hers is one of aspects of Bo’s fandom that I remember with warmth in my heart.
September 20th, 2009 at 12:34 pm
I never met Judi but I am one of the many who benefited from her being a member of our BFB family.
The beautiful painting she did of Bo was an indication of her talent. A gift she freely shared will all. She will be missed.
May peace be with you, Judi.
September 20th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Judi was always there when any of us needed anything – a picture, a video link, a kind word. I had so much fun talking and joking with her during cellcerts. I’ll miss her joy.
My deepest sympathies to her family and all her friends. We will remember her well.
September 20th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
I did have the pleasure of meeting Judi several times, she was quiet and unassuming and had a beautiful smile and quick laugh. The first time was at the first Bessemer show. While we all vied for seats as close to the stage as possible, she sat quite far back. I went up to talk to her and asked if she wanted to get closer. She smiled, shook her head no, and gestured to her camera. Yup, she always brought the goods for her fellow peeps who couldn’t be at the show.
Rest in peace, dear Judi, you will be sorely missed.
September 20th, 2009 at 2:43 pm
She stood behind me in line after the Charlotte show in July 2008. That night she gave Bo her beautiful painting of him. She was so pleased with the painting but concerned because she had a make shift wrapping due to spilling something on the original wrapping.
It did not matter, Bo loved the gift and was so touched. Judi always loved giving and never concerned with what she received in exchange. She had to leave us far too young and she will be missed.
September 20th, 2009 at 2:55 pm
RIP judi
September 20th, 2009 at 3:17 pm
I never “met” Judi, but she would message me about the graphics I’d made, and later, the photos I’d taken. She encouraged me to go as far as I could with it. She will be missed greatly.
Rest easy, Judi.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:22 pm
So sad we lost a BFB friend today. RIP Judi.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:30 pm
I never met Judi, but I feel like I’ve lost a family member. Such a sad thing to lose Judi way too soon.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
RIP Judi. Very very sad. I’m speachless. Her family and friends are in my thoughts.
September 20th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
I feel so sad about this…there just aren’t words. Peace to you, Judi.
September 20th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I’m so, so sorry to read this. Judi was a fun person, full of life and energy, and I always got a kick out of watching her finagle an ideal spot to videotape shows. Rest in peace Judi.
September 20th, 2009 at 6:45 pm
Although I’ve never met her, we share the loss.. so sorry. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and this BFB family.
September 20th, 2009 at 7:14 pm
I’m so shocked and sad hearing this. I never had the pleasure meeting Judi… I wish I had. My heart goes out to her family.
September 20th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
I am so sorry to hear this. Will be saying prayers for her family and may she rest in peace.
September 20th, 2009 at 7:27 pm
Thanks, ncbice! I knew I remembered that Judi had done something with the painting. I’m so glad she got the chance to give it to him.
September 20th, 2009 at 7:57 pm
Judi was a long time BFB family member who will be sorely missed. She was a talented artist and a generous soul who was taken from us much too soon. Rest in peace Judi. My condolences to her friends and family, as well.
September 20th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
I am so sorry to be reading this tonight. May you find true peace, Judi.
September 20th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
So sad. The world lost a wonderful person.
September 20th, 2009 at 10:10 pm
RIP Judi. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends. How sad.
September 21st, 2009 at 8:55 am
I’m so sorry to hear about jgaines’ passing. What a huge loss for us all, she will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family in their time of sorrow. May she rest in peace.
September 21st, 2009 at 12:33 pm
I never met Judi but it sounds like she was a wonderful woman. RIP Judi. My prayers to you and your family.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:33 pm
I’m so sad to read this today. My condolences to Judi’s family. I never met her, but I certainly “knew” her from her generosity to all of Bo’s fans. She shared her talents and time with us all.
September 22nd, 2009 at 12:48 pm
Judi & I communicated many times, and her generous spirit will be missed by all of us. May her friends & family find peace and comfort in this difficult time.
September 22nd, 2009 at 7:43 pm
I will miss Judi, and I will always remember her talent and her amazing heart! Thank you for being one of “bo’s peeps”.
September 23rd, 2009 at 11:25 pm
What a sad day. My thoughts and prayers go out to her loved ones. Although I don’t post too much anymore I still check this site often. I will miss seeing jgaines123. She has been a part of the “Bo Fan Family” for as long as I can remember. May she rest in peace.